When clients come to me, they're usually feeling...

  • Betrayed!

    This is very likely the most painful experience you've ever had. You've been sucker punched in the soul.

  • Confused!

    Your world is crashing down. You feel like a nuclear bomb just decimated your entire world, and you are trying to shield yourself from the fallout.

  • Crazy!

    All of this makes you feel like you are losing it. Sometimes you worry that you are going crazy. You wonder if you'll ever be the same again.

That's where I come in.

Are you in a marriage worth fighting for or

should you send him packing?

 

What if you could have clarity as to what your next steps should be right now?

  • Stop spinning in circles

    He seems sincere in wanting to work things out. You want to stay married. But then you think to yourself, "Only weak women stay with cheaters. Strong women walk!" Then you loop and want a divorce, until you think of your kids being spilt between two homes.... and now you want to stay married.

    Lather, Rinse, Repeat.

  • Know what you need from your husband to heal

    You know he wants to help, but he keeps hurting you with his words. Let me help identify what you need so you can tell him what you need to feel safe again.

  • Be at peace with that the decisions you make are rational and what's best for everyone effected.

    I'm not here to tell you to stay or go. Only you can decide that. What I can do is give you clear criteria based on research & clinical experience for you to make your decision.

​I've helped thousands of women through this. 
I can help you too.

As Your Infidelity Recovery Coach, I'll help you: 

  • Understand what's going on

    You are so confused. Your emotions are volatile - one minute you're so angry you could claw his eyes out, the next moment you're devastated with grief because you fear he will to leave you for his affair partner. 

  • Give you criteria to determine whether to stay or go

    You never wanted a divorce, but somehow you are now in this position. Do you take him back or blow up your family? What about the kids? It's all so unfair!

  • Help Him Help You Heal

    I'll explain the stupid things he says and does. Is he well-meaning but saying dumb things or is he a philander looking to blame you and escape responsibility. One you know the difference, you can ask for change.

  • Get back to feeling like you again

    Don't let his poor choices define you & how you view yourself.

Caroline Madden, PhD

​Hi, I'm Dr. Caroline!

My work is about guiding you through the confusion, helping you rebuild when possible, and supporting you in finding peace when moving on is the healthiest choice.  

 

  • Author of Three Books on Infidelity

    "Blindsided By His Betrayal",  "Fool Me Once" & "After A Good Man Cheats".

  • Experienced Licensed Marriage Therapist

    I am licensed Marriage Therapist in CA, AZ,FL,TX, and VT. I provide infidelity recovery coaching worldwide. 

  • Mama Bear

    I understand that once you have kids, life isn't all about you anymore. I will factor them into every decision I help you with.

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